C5: restrict the TLS 1.2 and below cipher list to ECDHE AEAD suites
(ECDHE+AESGCM:ECDHE+CHACHA20, minus NULL/eNULL/MD5/RC4/3DES) instead of
HIGH (which includes CBC), and set SSL_OP_CIPHER_SERVER_PREFERENCE so the
server's order decides the negotiated cipher. Client and server share
create_ssl_ctx, so both are updated.
C7: load the private key through an O_RDONLY|O_NOFOLLOW|O_CLOEXEC fd,
fstat that fd and validate owner/mode (now also rejecting group/other
execute bits), then load from the fd via BIO_new_fd. This removes the
stat-to-load TOCTOU race while keeping the exact-owner/0600 policy.
C8: verify an IP-literal client hostname against the certificate IP SAN
with X509_VERIFY_PARAM_set1_ip_asc instead of SSL_set1_host (a DNS
check), falling back to SSL_set1_host for real names.
Unit tests assert the server-preference option, the absence of CBC/RC4/
3DES suites, and that context creation still succeeds.