Transmit the complete --delete-during/--delete-delay per-directory plan
set before the first data frame, so a mid-transfer abort has already
applied every planned removal like rsync's generator; completed runs are
unchanged. Route -d/--dirs through the same per-directory plans: the
generator records only directories whose direct children it enumerated,
so extras directly inside a listed directory are removed while an
untraversed subdirectory's mirror is shielded (rsync's -d DIR/ --delete).
Also shields a -x mount point's untraversed destination content.
