fix(p7-privilege): harden copy-as/super gates, own dirs/specials

- fake-super owner replay honors --no-super and an active --copy-as
- copy-as/identity ownership now applied to directories and special nodes
- reject copy_as_set && !use_metadata (receiver + client --no-preserve)
- daemon refuses --copy-as; add server-side --no-super operator veto
- implement identity_copy_as_refused/identity_copy_as_active
- reject copy-as ids that overflow int32; escape spec in log errors
- copy-as chown EPERM/EACCES logged at ERROR (still non-fatal)
- identity_wire_valid copy-as bounds; CLI help and RSYNC_COMPAT docs
- add unit tests and root-gated integration coverage

src/shared/config.c

@@ -246,6 +246,10 @@ static bool validate_received_config(const Config* config) {
          valid_wire_bool(config->munge_links) && valid_wire_bool(config->keep_dirlinks) &&
          valid_wire_bool(config->fake_super) &&
          (!config->copy_as_set || (config->copy_as_uid >= 0 && config->copy_as_gid >= 0)) &&
+         /* --copy-as forces ownership through the metadata path; without
+            metadata it would pass the privilege gate but silently chown
+            nothing.  Refuse the frame instead. */
+         (!config->copy_as_set || config->use_metadata) &&
          (!config->use_compression ||
           (config->compression_level >= 1 && config->compression_level <= 22)) &&
          config->chunk_size > 0 && config->chunk_size <= MAX_CHUNK_SIZE &&