feat(p7-times): real directory/symlink time preservation; -O/-J meaningful

Wave D of Phase 7. Make -O/--omit-dir-times and -J/--omit-link-times real by
preserving directory and symlink times, and mark --secluded-args as an explicit
Impossible/Divergence no-op.

Wire: PROTOCOL_VERSION 2.16.0 -> 2.17.0. Adds a terminal STATUS_DIR_TIMES frame
(int count + (wire path, metadata) pairs) sent after all file data and the
optional delete manifest. STATUS_MKDIR also carries metadata for --dirs entries.
Config-frame layout is unchanged.

Sender: the recursive scanner captures every traversed source directory (both
DirectoryScanner and the parallel scanner root + workers, appends mutex-guarded)
into a shared list; the single-threaded and -m paths transmit it last.

Receiver: a DirTimeList accumulates received directory metadata and applies it
with fd-relative no-follow utimensat only at the very end -- after all children,
after the commit-style --delete, and after --delay-updates publication -- in the
single-threaded success frame and in server.c after the -m threads join. -O skips
the application. Symlink metadata is applied at link creation with
utimensat/fchownat/fchmodat AT_SYMLINK_NOFOLLOW; -J suppresses only link times.
identity_apply_ownership_link shares the identity resolver with the fd path.

Docs: -O/-J rows -> Implemented; --secluded-args -> Impossible/Divergence;
--protocol accepted/rejected values and Phase-6/7 notes updated.

Tests: unit (scanner dir capture, DirTimeList apply, symlink metadata, protocol
version values) and integration (dir mtime round-trip + -O, symlink mtime
round-trip + -J, independent suppression), parameterized over single/multithread.

src/shared/file_receive.h

@@ -8,13 +8,38 @@
 /* Server-side file receive/save path. */
 
 File* file_receive(const Config* config, int file_descriptor);
-File* file_receive_directory(int file_descriptor);
+File* file_receive_directory(int file_descriptor, const Config* config);
+File* file_receive_dir_time(int file_descriptor, const Config* config);
 File* file_receive_hardlink(int file_descriptor);
 File* file_receive_symlink(int file_descriptor, const Config* config);
 File* file_receive_special(int file_descriptor);
 bool file_special_rdev_valid(int32_t major, int32_t minor, mode_t mode);
 File* receive_incremental_check(int fd, const Config* config, bool* skipped);
 
+/* P7 Wave D directory-time accumulator.  The receiver collects the metadata of
+ * every directory it creates/receives (STATUS_MKDIR with metadata and/or the
+ * terminal STATUS_DIR_TIMES frame) and applies the times only at the END of the
+ * transfer, after all children have been written and after the delete /
+ * --delay-updates phases have committed (writing or removing a child bumps the
+ * parent's mtime).  -O/--omit-dir-times skips the application entirely.  The
+ * list owns deep copies of the paths and metadata; freed on every path. */
+typedef struct {
+  char** paths;          /* owned, destination-relative wire paths */
+  FileMetadata* entries; /* owned, parallel to paths */
+  size_t count;
+  size_t capacity;
+} DirTimeList;
+
+void dir_time_list_init(DirTimeList* list);
+void dir_time_list_free(DirTimeList* list);
+/* Deep-copy one directory's path + metadata into the list.  Returns false on
+ * allocation failure (the caller fails the transfer). */
+bool dir_time_list_add(DirTimeList* list, const char* wire_path, const FileMetadata* metadata);
+/* Apply every accumulated directory's mtime (and atime when captured) beneath
+ * `root_directory`, confined fd-relative.  Best-effort per entry: a missing or
+ * unreachable directory is skipped with a warning, never fatal. */
+void dir_time_list_apply(const DirTimeList* list, const char* root_directory);
+
 /* A received delete-manifest frame: the keep-set (`keeps`, destination-relative
    paths the sender transferred/keeps) plus `protected`, destination-relative
    prefixes the sender asks the receiver never to delete (paths excluded on the