feat(parity): receiver STATUS_STATS report and -n --delete lines

Add the STATUS_STATS end-of-transfer receiver report (matched/deleted
counters plus a would-delete path list) behind the report_stats wire
bool, and a read-only delete_extras_list walker.  --stats now renders
true wire byte totals and the receiver-reported deleted count; a
server-contacting -n --delete prints transfer-relative '*deleting' lines
matching rsync's itemize layout.

src/shared/utils.h

@@ -138,6 +138,14 @@ DeleteWalkResult delete_extras_limited(const char* dest_root, const ArrayList* m
                                        const ArrayList* synced_dirs, size_t max_delete,
                                        const DeleteSkipEntry* skips, int skip_count,
                                        size_t* deleted_out, size_t* skipped_out);
+/* Read-only companion to delete_extras_limited: walk the destination exactly as
+   the delete pass would and APPEND (strdup'd) destination-relative paths that
+   WOULD be removed, without touching disk.  Used for -n/--dry-run --delete
+   would-delete reporting.  Returns true on a clean walk; the caller owns the
+   strings appended to `out` and receives their count in *count_out. */
+bool delete_extras_list(const char* dest_root, const ArrayList* manifest,
+                        const ArrayList* synced_dirs, const DeleteSkipEntry* skips, int skip_count,
+                        ArrayList* out, size_t* count_out);
 bool delete_extras(const char* dest_root, const ArrayList* manifest);
 bool utils_set_authorized_root(int fd, const char* canonical_path);
 /* The fd-only compatibility form is fail-closed for path-based operations;