test: --fuzzy coverage (CLI, config wire, integration)

Unit: parse -y/--fuzzy and --no-fuzzy negation (order-independent), -W and
--no-delta leave fuzzy inert, --fuzzy implies --incremental/--delta, and
validate_config rejects fuzzy with -s (chunk serialization) and -f
(sendfile).  Config: fuzzy survives the socketpair wire round-trip.

Integration (TestFuzzy, byte counts via a new CountingProxy helper): the
rename case transfers a 2 MiB file in a few percent of its size with byte-
exact output under --fuzzy, while the no-fuzzy, no-candidate, dissimilar-
sibling and --whole-file runs send the whole file; -y alias; -m parity;
dest-holds-unsuitable-file falls back to the sibling; --delay-updates and
--remove-source-files keep their semantics on fuzzy transfers.

tests/integration/common.py

@@ -6,6 +6,7 @@ import socket
 import subprocess
 import sys
 import tempfile
+import threading
 import time
 
 PROJECT_ROOT = os.path.abspath(os.path.join(os.path.dirname(__file__), "..", ".."))
@@ -53,6 +54,76 @@ class ServerManager:
         self.stop()
 
 
+class CountingProxy:
+    """One-shot TCP forwarder that counts the bytes flowing in each direction
+    between one client and the real server.
+
+    Client output and --stats report SOURCE lengths, so a delta/fuzzy transfer
+    that moves only a few percent of the file is invisible in normal output.
+    Routing the client through this proxy makes the actual wire usage
+    observable: client_to_server counts every byte the client sent (config,
+    paths, and file/delta payloads), server_to_client counts the reply bytes
+    (including the receiver's delta signatures).
+    """
+
+    def __init__(self, target_port):
+        self.target_port = target_port
+        self._listener = socket.socket()
+        self._listener.setsockopt(socket.SOL_SOCKET, socket.SO_REUSEADDR, 1)
+        self._listener.bind(("127.0.0.1", 0))
+        self._listener.listen(1)
+        self._listener.settimeout(30)
+        self.port = self._listener.getsockname()[1]
+        self.client_to_server = 0
+        self.server_to_client = 0
+
+    @staticmethod
+    def _pump(src, dst, counter):
+        while True:
+            try:
+                data = src.recv(65536)
+            except OSError:
+                return
+            if not data:
+                try:
+                    dst.shutdown(socket.SHUT_WR)
+                except OSError:
+                    pass
+                return
+            try:
+                dst.sendall(data)
+            except OSError:
+                return
+            counter[0] += len(data)
+
+    def run(self, cmd):
+        """Forward one client run (the full command list) to the real server and
+        return the CompletedProcess after the counts have settled."""
+
+        def serve():
+            try:
+                client_sock, _ = self._listener.accept()
+                server_sock = socket.create_connection(("127.0.0.1", self.target_port),
+                                                       timeout=10)
+            except OSError:
+                return
+            c2s, s2c = [0], [0]
+            a = threading.Thread(target=self._pump, args=(client_sock, server_sock, c2s))
+            b = threading.Thread(target=self._pump, args=(server_sock, client_sock, s2c))
+            a.start()
+            b.start()
+            a.join()
+            b.join()
+            self.client_to_server = c2s[0]
+            self.server_to_client = s2c[0]
+
+        thread = threading.Thread(target=serve)
+        thread.start()
+        result = subprocess.run(cmd, capture_output=True, text=True, timeout=180)
+        thread.join(20)
+        return result
+
+
 def run_client(source_dir, dest_dir, flags=None, port=None, extra_args=None):
     """Run the client and return (result, duration)."""
     cmd = CLIENT_CMD + ["--source-dir", source_dir, "--dest-dir", dest_dir, "--save-to-disk"]