fix(fs): rsync push iconv direction; gate empty-dir emission; reclassify --temp-dir

- --iconv now matches rsync's push direction: the destination charset is the
  client spec's REMOTE half, so a default receiver writes wire names verbatim;
  a server's own --iconv LOCAL overrides it (daemon charset analog). Updated
  unit + integration tests and added a default-server differential gate case.
- Empty-directory emission is gated behind a new ScannerOptions.emit_empty_dirs
  set only by the real sender, so low-level scanner helpers keep the historical
  file-only list.
- --temp-dir reclassified to Divergent: relative dirs match rsync exactly
  (resolved under the destination), but an absolute path is deliberately
  rejected by the confined receiver; differential test added.
- Docs/tally: 109 Parity / 22 Caveat / 25 Divergent.

src/client/scanner.h

@@ -151,6 +151,12 @@ typedef struct {
   bool capture_dir_times;
   ArrayList* dir_entries;
   mtx_t* dir_entries_mutex;
+  /* Recreate empty source directories on a recursive transfer: emit a
+   * payload-less directory entry for every traversed directory that produced
+   * no transferred/descended child.  Off by default so low-level scanner users
+   * (unit helpers, --list-only) see only the historical file list; the real
+   * sender sets it in prepare_scanner. */
+  bool emit_empty_dirs;
   /* --no-implied-dirs with -R + --files-from: a directory that is only an
    * implied parent of a listed entry (not itself listed, nor below a listed
    * directory) must not carry source metadata; it is created with default