fix(parity): receiver temp-dir confinement, server I/O floor, delete budget

Address review findings on feat/rsync-parity:
- confine --temp-dir below the receive root (reject absolute/.. like
  backup-dir/partial-dir); keep EXDEV non-atomic fallback
- floor server session I/O deadlines at SERVER_IO_TIMEOUT_SEC (60s) and
  install it on the socket layer at startup (slow-loris)
- charge each --delete-missing-args directory removal once and clamp the
  extras-walk remaining budget so it can never underflow past --max-delete
- normalize --compress-choice=auto to zstd client-side and accept it on
  receive so auto transfers no longer fail
- map received --max-alloc=0 to MAX_SERVER_ALLOC (receive path only)
- zero File.dest_state; include log-file-format in report_dest_info;
  add STATUS_DELETE_LIMIT name; recognize --skip-compress as a
  separate-value option; OOM-guard send_list_only root entry; drop the
  dead -M= branch; record the bare relative protected prefix for -R
  size-prunes in both scanners; refresh delete-manifest comment
- pin the rsync tarball sha256 and bump integrator image to v11

Tests: temp-dir rejection/relative/cross-device, server timeout floor,
delete-missing dir budget regression, compress-choice=auto e2e,
max-alloc=0 receive mapping, dest_state, report_dest_info modes,
skip-compress dash value, -M short forms, -R root size-prune mirror
protection (rsync 3.4.1 confirmed).

src/shared/protocol.c

@@ -104,6 +104,10 @@ int protocol_get_io_timeout_sec(void) {
   return session->io_timeout_sec > 0 ? session->io_timeout_sec : 0;
 }
 
+int protocol_server_io_timeout_sec(int client_timeout) {
+  return client_timeout > 0 ? client_timeout : SERVER_IO_TIMEOUT_SEC;
+}
+
 void protocol_session_set_max_alloc(ProtocolSession* session, unsigned long long max_alloc) {
   if (!session)
     session = bound_session ? bound_session : &legacy_io_session;
@@ -495,6 +499,8 @@ static const char* status_to_string(Status status) {
     return "ERROR_DETAIL";
   case STATUS_DRY_RUN_TRANSFER:
     return "DRY_RUN_TRANSFER";
+  case STATUS_DELETE_LIMIT:
+    return "DELETE_LIMIT";
   case STATUS_DEST_INFO:
     return "DEST_INFO";
   default: