feat(protocol): add optional STATUS_ERROR_DETAIL rejection reason (2.21.0)

Today a server rejection sends a bare STATUS_ERROR and the reason only
reaches the server log, so the client cannot say why a transfer was
refused.  Add an optional, bounded server->client error-detail frame:

  - Status gains STATUS_ERROR_DETAIL appended LAST so existing wire
    values are unchanged.
  - send_error_detail(fd, msg) sends STATUS_ERROR_DETAIL followed by the
    existing length-prefixed string primitive, slicing over-long messages
    to MAX_ERROR_DETAIL_BYTES (4096).
  - receive_status() (and the timed/keepalive status readers) always
    consume the detail body and map the status back to STATUS_ERROR,
    capturing the text into a thread-local buffer exposed by
    protocol_last_error(); a bare STATUS_ERROR leaves it cleared.  Every
    existing call site keeps working and the stream cannot desync.
  - Upgrade the daemon module gate / config validation (config.c), the
    final transfer failure (server.c) and receiver-side path/node
    validation (file_receive.c) to send a concrete reason; surface it on
    the client in client_send.c/config.c.
  - Bump PROTOCOL_VERSION to 2.21.0 (CMake VERSION, CHANGELOG, docs) and
    update the pinned config wire golden hash / CLI-version tests.
  - Add tests/test_protocol_error.c covering mapping+capture, the
    over-long bound, bare-error clearing, and thread-locality.

tests/runner.c

@@ -25,6 +25,7 @@
 #include "test_multiprocessing.h"
 #include "test_property.h"
 #include "test_protocol.h"
+#include "test_protocol_error.h"
 #include "test_queue.h"
 #include "test_receiver_timeout.h"
 #include "test_robustness.h"
@@ -65,6 +66,7 @@ int main() {
   RUN_TEST(test_delta);
   RUN_TEST(test_data);
   RUN_TEST(test_protocol);
+  RUN_TEST(test_protocol_error);
   RUN_TEST(test_receiver_timeout);
   RUN_TEST(test_metadata);
   RUN_TEST(test_glob);