feat(output): rsync 3.4.1 selection and output parity (#291, #292)

#291:
- Compile --exclude/--include/--exclude-from/--include-from into the SAME
  ordered rule list as --filter/-f (first match wins), so the common
  `--include='*.txt' --exclude='*'` idiom and include-alone semantics match
  rsync. The legacy per-kind scanner arrays are no longer applied.
- -x/--one-file-system emits the cross-device mount-point directory entry
  (empty) instead of dropping it, in both the sequential and parallel scanners.
- Stop passing the legacy arrays to the scanner; document -f is --filter.

#292:
- New src/shared/format.c/.h: rsync "big_num" (comma-grouped integers) and
  decimal -h human sizes, %M/%t timestamp, and the STATUS_DEST_INFO codec.
- Receiver answers each STATUS_CHECK with a pre-transfer destination snapshot
  (new report_dest_info wire field + STATUS_DEST_INFO, PROTOCOL_VERSION
  2.23.0) so the sender can render true itemize columns.
- Itemize now emits rsync-correct update/type chars and c/s/t/p/o/g columns
  for files, dirs, symlinks and hard links, comparing size/time/perms/owner/
  group against the reported destination.
- --out-format gains %i %n %f %l %b %M %t %o %p %B %U %G %L; %f is the
  relative display path, %M the YYYY/MM/DD-HH:MM:SS form, %b the literal
  bytes sent.
- --list-only prints transfer-relative names, directory entries and ls-style
  grouped sizes.
- --stats prints rsync's multi-line block on stdout; -h uses decimal units.

Tests: unit tests for the filter ordering, format primitives, itemize
columns; integration + differential tests against real rsync 3.4.1 for
itemize/out-format/list-only/selection and -x. Golden wire len/hash and
protocol version strings updated for 2.23.0.

src/shared/config.h

@@ -76,7 +76,7 @@ typedef struct {
 typedef enum SuperMode { SUPER_MODE_AUTO = 0, SUPER_MODE_ON = 1, SUPER_MODE_OFF = 2 } SuperMode;
 
 /* ===========================================================================
- * Config wire-field table (single source of truth for protocol 2.22.0).
+ * Config wire-field table (single source of truth for protocol 2.23.0).
  *
  * Every field below crosses the wire.  The table is the ONLY place a
  * serialized field is named: config.h expands CONFIG_WIRE_FIELDS() to declare
@@ -241,6 +241,13 @@ typedef enum SuperMode { SUPER_MODE_AUTO = 0, SUPER_MODE_ON = 1, SUPER_MODE_OFF
   X(copy_as_uid, int32_t, 0, COPY_AS_ID)                                                           \
   X(copy_as_gid, int32_t, 0, COPY_AS_ID)
 
+/* Output-parity wave (protocol 2.23.0).  report_dest_info tells the receiver to
+ * answer every per-file STATUS_CHECK with a STATUS_DEST_INFO snapshot of the
+ * pre-transfer destination entry (see protocol.h).  It is set by the client
+ * only when -i/--itemize-changes or --out-format asks for per-file change
+ * output; the transfer decision itself is unchanged. */
+#define CONFIG_WIRE_OUTPUT_FIELDS(X) X(report_dest_info, bool, false, BOOL)
+
 /* All serialized fields, in exact wire order.  Concatenating the per-segment
  * lists here is what keeps the declaration order = the wire order. */
 #define CONFIG_WIRE_FIELDS(X)                                                                      \
@@ -261,7 +268,8 @@ typedef enum SuperMode { SUPER_MODE_AUTO = 0, SUPER_MODE_ON = 1, SUPER_MODE_OFF
   CONFIG_WIRE_DAEMON_AUTH_FIELDS(X)                                                                \
   CONFIG_WIRE_ICONV_FIELDS(X)                                                                      \
   CONFIG_WIRE_PRIVILEGE_FIELDS(X)                                                                  \
-  CONFIG_WIRE_COPY_AS_FIELDS(X)
+  CONFIG_WIRE_COPY_AS_FIELDS(X)                                                                    \
+  CONFIG_WIRE_OUTPUT_FIELDS(X)
 
 typedef struct Config {
   /* -j/--threads=N: number of parallel scanner worker threads for the -m
@@ -849,8 +857,22 @@ typedef struct Config {
  * version before parsing anything else) is what keeps a 2.22 client and a 2.21
  * server from ever reaching that state.  The fixed-width FileMetadata layout is
  * UNCHANGED: the receiver still gates attribute application on use_metadata,
- * which is now DERIVED from these attributes by config_derived_use_metadata(). */
-#define PROTOCOL_VERSION "2.22.0"
+ * which is now DERIVED from these attributes by config_derived_use_metadata().
+ *
+ * Output-Parity Wave: 2.22.0 -> 2.23.0.
+ *
+ * WHY the bump, grounded in the wire: -i/--itemize-changes and --out-format
+ * must compare the source against the PRE-TRANSFER destination entry (new vs
+ * modified, and which of size/time/perms/owner/group differ), but FastSync's
+ * push sender never sees the destination.  The receiver therefore answers a
+ * per-file STATUS_CHECK with a new STATUS_DEST_INFO frame (a fixed-width
+ * snapshot of the old entry) before its ordinary verdict when the config frame
+ * carries the new report_dest_info bool appended after the --copy-as block.
+ * This is both a config-frame layout change (one trailing bool) and a frame
+ * sequence change (the new status), so any peer that did not parse them would
+ * desynchronize; the strict same-version handshake keeps a 2.23 client and a
+ * 2.22 server from ever reaching that state. */
+#define PROTOCOL_VERSION "2.23.0"
 #define DEFAULT_CHUNK_SIZE (10 * 1024 * 1024)
 /* Upper bound on total basis-dir entries (rsync caps --link-dest at 20). */
 #define MAX_BASIS_DIRS 64