feat(output): rsync 3.4.1 selection and output parity (#291, #292)

#291:
- Compile --exclude/--include/--exclude-from/--include-from into the SAME
  ordered rule list as --filter/-f (first match wins), so the common
  `--include='*.txt' --exclude='*'` idiom and include-alone semantics match
  rsync. The legacy per-kind scanner arrays are no longer applied.
- -x/--one-file-system emits the cross-device mount-point directory entry
  (empty) instead of dropping it, in both the sequential and parallel scanners.
- Stop passing the legacy arrays to the scanner; document -f is --filter.

#292:
- New src/shared/format.c/.h: rsync "big_num" (comma-grouped integers) and
  decimal -h human sizes, %M/%t timestamp, and the STATUS_DEST_INFO codec.
- Receiver answers each STATUS_CHECK with a pre-transfer destination snapshot
  (new report_dest_info wire field + STATUS_DEST_INFO, PROTOCOL_VERSION
  2.23.0) so the sender can render true itemize columns.
- Itemize now emits rsync-correct update/type chars and c/s/t/p/o/g columns
  for files, dirs, symlinks and hard links, comparing size/time/perms/owner/
  group against the reported destination.
- --out-format gains %i %n %f %l %b %M %t %o %p %B %U %G %L; %f is the
  relative display path, %M the YYYY/MM/DD-HH:MM:SS form, %b the literal
  bytes sent.
- --list-only prints transfer-relative names, directory entries and ls-style
  grouped sizes.
- --stats prints rsync's multi-line block on stdout; -h uses decimal units.

Tests: unit tests for the filter ordering, format primitives, itemize
columns; integration + differential tests against real rsync 3.4.1 for
itemize/out-format/list-only/selection and -x. Golden wire len/hash and
protocol version strings updated for 2.23.0.

src/shared/config.c

@@ -1128,6 +1128,7 @@ CONFIG_DEFINE_SEND(send_daemon_auth, CONFIG_WIRE_DAEMON_AUTH_FIELDS)
 CONFIG_DEFINE_SEND(send_iconv_spec, CONFIG_WIRE_ICONV_FIELDS)
 CONFIG_DEFINE_SEND(send_privilege_options, CONFIG_WIRE_PRIVILEGE_FIELDS)
 CONFIG_DEFINE_SEND(send_copy_as_options, CONFIG_WIRE_COPY_AS_FIELDS)
+CONFIG_DEFINE_SEND(send_output_options, CONFIG_WIRE_OUTPUT_FIELDS)
 
 CONFIG_DEFINE_RECV(receive_core_fields, CONFIG_WIRE_CORE_FIELDS)
 CONFIG_DEFINE_RECV(receive_delta_fields, CONFIG_WIRE_DELTA_FIELDS)
@@ -1146,6 +1147,7 @@ CONFIG_DEFINE_RECV(receive_daemon_auth, CONFIG_WIRE_DAEMON_AUTH_FIELDS)
 CONFIG_DEFINE_RECV(receive_iconv_spec, CONFIG_WIRE_ICONV_FIELDS)
 CONFIG_DEFINE_RECV(receive_privilege_options, CONFIG_WIRE_PRIVILEGE_FIELDS)
 CONFIG_DEFINE_RECV(receive_copy_as_options, CONFIG_WIRE_COPY_AS_FIELDS)
+CONFIG_DEFINE_RECV(receive_output_options, CONFIG_WIRE_OUTPUT_FIELDS)
 
 #undef XSEND
 #undef XRECV
@@ -1262,7 +1264,8 @@ bool config_send_wire_block(int file_descriptor, const Config* config) {
          send_daemon_module(file_descriptor, config) && send_daemon_auth(file_descriptor, config) &&
          send_iconv_spec(file_descriptor, config) &&
          send_privilege_options(file_descriptor, config) &&
-         send_copy_as_options(file_descriptor, config);
+         send_copy_as_options(file_descriptor, config) &&
+         send_output_options(file_descriptor, config);
 }
 
 bool config_send(int file_descriptor, const Config* config) {
@@ -1332,7 +1335,8 @@ Config* config_receive_with_validate(int file_descriptor, ConfigValidateFunc val
       !receive_daemon_auth(file_descriptor, config, &budget) ||
       !receive_iconv_spec(file_descriptor, config, &budget) ||
       !receive_privilege_options(file_descriptor, config, &budget) ||
-      !receive_copy_as_options(file_descriptor, config, &budget))
+      !receive_copy_as_options(file_descriptor, config, &budget) ||
+      !receive_output_options(file_descriptor, config, &budget))
     goto error;
   if (config->compress_choice[0] != '\0' && strcmp(config->compress_choice, "zstd") != 0 &&
       strcmp(config->compress_choice, "none") != 0) {