fix(delete): match rsync deletion semantics (#290)

- Scope the --delete extras walk to directories synchronized by the
  transfer: add a synchronized-directory section to the delete manifest
  (protocol 2.23.0) so --files-from subsets no longer delete untransmitted
  paths outside listed directory subtrees (data-loss fix).
- Separate --max-size/--min-size prune protection from --delete-excluded so
  size-pruned source mirrors survive (rsync parity).
- Unlink extraneous destination symlinks instead of skipping them.
- Make --max-delete partial (delete up to N, skip the rest) and exit 25;
  accept negative values as unlimited.
- Draw --delete-missing-args deletions from the shared --max-delete budget.
- Honor --force during --delay-updates publication.

Add unit and integration regression tests; update the pinned config wire
golden and version strings for the 2.23.0 manifest/status additions.

tests/integration/test_preflight.py

@@ -94,14 +94,14 @@ def _seed_protocol_source(source):
 class TestProtocol:
     @pytest.mark.ci
     def test_protocol_current_version_accepted(self, shared_server):
-        """--protocol=2.22.0 (the current PROTOCOL_VERSION) is accepted and the
+        """--protocol=2.23.0 (the current PROTOCOL_VERSION) is accepted and the
         transfer completes normally."""
         source = os.path.join(TEST_DATA_DIR, "proto_ok_src")
         dest = os.path.join(TEST_DATA_DIR, "proto_ok_dst")
         shutil.rmtree(dest, ignore_errors=True)
         os.makedirs(dest)
         _seed_protocol_source(source)
-        result, _ = run_client(source, dest, flags=["--protocol=2.22.0"],
+        result, _ = run_client(source, dest, flags=["--protocol=2.23.0"],
                                port=shared_server.port)
         assert result.returncode == 0, \
             f"--protocol current run failed: {(result.stderr or result.stdout)[:400]}"