fix(delete): match rsync deletion semantics (#290)

- Scope the --delete extras walk to directories synchronized by the
  transfer: add a synchronized-directory section to the delete manifest
  (protocol 2.23.0) so --files-from subsets no longer delete untransmitted
  paths outside listed directory subtrees (data-loss fix).
- Separate --max-size/--min-size prune protection from --delete-excluded so
  size-pruned source mirrors survive (rsync parity).
- Unlink extraneous destination symlinks instead of skipping them.
- Make --max-delete partial (delete up to N, skip the rest) and exit 25;
  accept negative values as unlimited.
- Draw --delete-missing-args deletions from the shared --max-delete budget.
- Honor --force during --delay-updates publication.

Add unit and integration regression tests; update the pinned config wire
golden and version strings for the 2.23.0 manifest/status additions.

src/shared/file_list.h

@@ -40,4 +40,14 @@ void file_list_destroy(FileListSet* set);
  * this returns true, files are transferred only when it returns true. */
 bool file_list_affects(const FileListSet* set, const char* rel);
 
+/* True when the DIRECTORY `rel` (path relative to the source root) is inside a
+ * listed directory subtree: `rel` itself is a listed entry, or one of `rel`'s
+ * ancestor directory prefixes is an exact listed entry.  Unlike
+ * file_list_affects this does NOT treat an ancestor of a listed entry as
+ * affected, so an implied parent directory of a listed file is not synchronized
+ * (rsync deletes nothing in it).  With no set or a whole-tree set every
+ * directory is in scope.  This is the delete-walker's "synchronized directory"
+ * predicate. */
+bool file_list_dir_in_scope(const FileListSet* set, const char* rel);
+
 #endif