ci: parallelize integration suite with pytest-xdist; fast PR gate + full coverage on merge

- Add pytest-xdist to the CI Dockerfile (image -> v10).
- Worker-isolate TEST_DATA_DIR (PYTEST_XDIST_WORKER) so concurrent xdist
  workers never collide on shared-filesystem fixtures.
- Register a 'ci' marker and tag a fast representative subset of integration
  tests (basic TCP, incremental, compression, delete, basis, append).
- ci.yaml: lint + build + unit + the marked subset (-n4) on every PR; the
  full integration suite plus sanitizer/fuzz/coverage/valgrind run only on
  push to dev/main.
- Integration step runtime drops from ~860s (serial) to ~230s (-n4); the PR
  gate lands well under ~3 minutes.

pytest.ini

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+[pytest]
+; Fast integration subset run on every pull request (see .gitea/workflows/ci.yaml).
+markers =
+    ci: fast, representative integration tests run on the PR CI gate