ci: parallelize integration suite with pytest-xdist; fast PR gate + full coverage on merge

- Add pytest-xdist to the CI Dockerfile (image -> v10).
- Worker-isolate TEST_DATA_DIR (PYTEST_XDIST_WORKER) so concurrent xdist
  workers never collide on shared-filesystem fixtures.
- Register a 'ci' marker and tag a fast representative subset of integration
  tests (basic TCP, incremental, compression, delete, basis, append).
- ci.yaml: lint + build + unit + the marked subset (-n4) on every PR; the
  full integration suite plus sanitizer/fuzz/coverage/valgrind run only on
  push to dev/main.
- Integration step runtime drops from ~860s (serial) to ~230s (-n4); the PR
  gate lands well under ~3 minutes.

Dockerfile

@@ -3,7 +3,7 @@ RUN apt-get update && apt-get install -y --no-install-recommends \
     gcc g++ make libc6-dev cmake libzstd-dev libssl-dev git ca-certificates curl cppcheck clang-format \
     python3 python3-pip python3-venv openssl openssh-client \
     lcov valgrind clang libclang-rt-18-dev && \
-    pip3 install --break-system-packages pytest && \
+    pip3 install --break-system-packages pytest pytest-xdist && \
     curl -fsSL https://deb.nodesource.com/setup_20.x | bash - && \
     apt-get install -y --no-install-recommends nodejs && \
     rm -rf /var/lib/apt/lists/*