acls/xattrs: -X/--xattrs, -A/--acls, --fake-super

New src/shared/xattr.{c,h}: capture user.* + POSIX ACL xattrs, transmit a bounded
per-file block, re-apply fd-relative. security.*/trusted.*/other system.* never
transmitted/applied (receiver re-validates). Bounds: name<=255 value<=1MiB count
<=256 total<=4MiB. --fake-super records uid:gid:mode:mtime in reserved
user.fastsync.stat (receiver-only). PROTOCOL_VERSION 2.12.0->2.13.0. Review
fixes: reserved key not forwardable, link/hardlink copy-fallback preserves
xattrs, no const-param mutation, per-file warning dedup.

src/shared/file_send.h

@@ -11,11 +11,11 @@ bool file_send_single_calls(File* file, int file_descriptor, bool use_metadata,
 bool file_send_single_calls_with_skip(File* file, int file_descriptor, bool use_metadata,
                                       int compression_level, bool send_path,
                                       char* const* skip_suffixes, int skip_count,
-                                      int compression_threads);
+                                      int compression_threads, bool send_xattrs);
 bool file_send_sendfile(File* file, int file_descriptor, bool use_metadata, int compression_level,
                         bool send_path);
 bool file_send_sendfile_with_skip(File* file, int file_descriptor, bool use_metadata,
                                   int compression_level, bool send_path, char* const* skip_suffixes,
-                                  int skip_count, int compression_threads);
+                                  int skip_count, int compression_threads, bool send_xattrs);
 
 #endif