feat(dry-run): server-contacting --dry-run (protocol 2.21.0)

--dry-run now handshakes with a remote/daemon receiver and reports what
WOULD transfer/skip based on receiver state, mutating nothing on either
side.

- Serialize Config.dry_run into the wire config frame and append
  STATUS_DRY_RUN_TRANSFER to the status enum (no renumbering); bump
  PROTOCOL_VERSION/CMake VERSION/CHANGELOG/golden wire to 2.21.0.
- Receiver: receive_incremental_check_ex runs the normal read-only
  decision and answers STATUS_OK (skip) or STATUS_DRY_RUN_TRANSFER
  (would transfer) with no basis materialization/append/delta/full
  transfer.  All mutation sites are guarded by !dry_run: file store,
  manifest deletes, --mkpath root creation, --delay-updates staging,
  publication, directory-time application, and outcome acks.
- Client: send_dry_run_remote connects, sends the config, checks each
  regular file and prints the would-transfer set + trailer; no file data
  or delete manifest is sent.  Plain local destinations keep the
  client-side manifest.

tests/test_client_cli.c

@@ -306,7 +306,7 @@ static void test_parse_args_protocol_accept_current() {
   Config* cfg = valid_client_config();
   EXPECT_NOT_NULL(cfg);
   char* argv_equals[] = {"fastsync",   "--source-dir", "/src",
-                         "--dest-dir", "/dst",         "--protocol=2.20.0"};
+                         "--dest-dir", "/dst",         "--protocol=2.21.0"};
   int positional_args[2];
   int positional_count = 0;
   EXPECT_EQ_INT(parse_args(cfg, 6, argv_equals, positional_args, &positional_count), 0);
@@ -316,7 +316,7 @@ static void test_parse_args_protocol_accept_current() {
   cfg = valid_client_config();
   EXPECT_NOT_NULL(cfg);
   char* argv_space[] = {"fastsync", "--source-dir", "/src",  "--dest-dir",
-                        "/dst",     "--protocol",   "2.20.0"};
+                        "/dst",     "--protocol",   "2.21.0"};
   positional_count = 0;
   EXPECT_EQ_INT(parse_args(cfg, 7, argv_space, positional_args, &positional_count), 0);
   EXPECT_EQ_STR(cfg->version, PROTOCOL_VERSION);
@@ -326,8 +326,9 @@ static void test_parse_args_protocol_accept_current() {
 /* Any --protocol value other than the current PROTOCOL_VERSION must end in
  * failure (parse_args simply stores it; validate_config rejects it up front). */
 static void test_parse_args_protocol_rejects_other_versions() {
-  static const char* const bad_versions[] = {
-      "2.17", "2.16", "2.15.0", "2.16.0", "2.17.0", "2.18.0", "2.19.0", "216", "31", "abc", ""};
+  static const char* const bad_versions[] = {"2.17",   "2.16",   "2.15.0", "2.16.0",
+                                             "2.17.0", "2.18.0", "2.19.0", "2.20.0",
+                                             "216",    "31",     "abc",    ""};
   for (size_t i = 0; i < sizeof(bad_versions) / sizeof(bad_versions[0]); i++) {
     Config* cfg = valid_client_config();
     EXPECT_NOT_NULL(cfg);