feat(parity): real --info=del deletion lines + rsync throttle pacing

- Wire: config frame gains report_deletes (protocol 2.26.0 -> 2.27.0); the
  receiver lists actually-removed paths in the STATUS_STATS path list, so the
  sender prints rsync's `deleting PATH` / `*deleting   PATH` lines for a real
  --delete run (and -i/out-format).  Observers threaded through the manifest,
  missing-args and per-directory delete engines; golden wire len/hash updated.
- bwlimit: throttle now paces like rsync 3.4.1 -- ~100ms burst capacity and the
  sleep is no longer credited as refill, so 4 MiB at 1024/2048 KiB/s matches
  rsync within ~4% (was ~2x too fast).

src/server/receiver_pipeline.h

@@ -61,6 +61,9 @@ typedef struct PipelineContextReceiver {
   /* -n/--dry-run --delete would-delete path list, collected by receive_thread
      and reported in the STATUS_STATS frame. */
   struct ArrayList* would_delete;
+  /* --info=del actually-removed path list, collected by the deferred delete
+     commit in server.c and reported in the STATUS_STATS frame. */
+  struct ArrayList* deleted_paths;
 } PipelineContextReceiver;
 
 PipelineContextReceiver* pipeline_context_receiver_create(Config* config, Queue* queue_receiver,