fix(receiver): close re-review findings — dry-run basis oracle, ACL capture, fsync reopen

Follow-up to a237043 addressing three security/correctness re-review findings.

(1) MEDIUM: a server-contacting --dry-run with --compare-dest/--copy-dest/
    --link-dest still read and hashed the basis file and compared it with the
    client-supplied digest, a 1-bit content oracle. basis_match_find() gains a
    hash_content parameter; the dry-run shortcut passes false and returns no
    match without touching basis bytes, so an otherwise-matching entry is
    reported as would-transfer. The real (non-dry-run) path is unchanged.

(2) LOW: xattr_capture_path() hardcoded preserve_acls=true, so the receiver's
    hard-link copy fallback re-applied system.posix_acl_* even when -A was not
    negotiated. The function now takes preserve_acls and members.* is
    unaffected; scanner and receiver callers thread the negotiated flag.

(3) INFO: the --fsync --link-dest temp reopen now uses O_NONBLOCK and treats
    a raced-in FIFO's ENXIO as a benign fsync-skip instead of blocking.

Tests: dry-run + basis unit test (asserts would-transfer, no content read) and
integration test; xattr capture ACL-filter test. Verified strict build, ASan,
clang-format, cppcheck, and the CI integration subset.

tests/integration/test_features.py

@@ -3813,6 +3813,27 @@ class TestBasisDestDirs:
         assert _read_file(os.path.join(received, self.ADDED)) == \
             self._source_tree("c")[self.ADDED], "added file not transferred"
 
+    @pytest.mark.ci
+    def test_dry_run_compare_dest_does_not_read_basis(self, shared_server):
+        # A dry-run --compare-dest must never read/hash the basis file: doing so
+        # is a 1-bit content oracle against the client-supplied digest.  Even a
+        # byte-identical basis with a matching size+mtime is therefore reported
+        # as would-transfer, and nothing is created.
+        source = self._make_source("basis_dry_src", {self.UNCHANGED: b"stable content v1\n"})
+        dest = os.path.join(TEST_DATA_DIR, "basis_dry_dst")
+        clean_dir(dest)
+        self._seed_basis(dest, source, "drybasis", {self.UNCHANGED: b"stable content v1\n"})
+        before = _snapshot_tree(dest)
+        result, _ = run_client(source, dest,
+                               flags=["--compare-dest=drybasis", "--dry-run"],
+                               port=shared_server.port)
+        assert result.returncode == 0, \
+            f"dry-run compare-dest failed: {result.stderr[:300]}"
+        assert self.UNCHANGED in result.stdout, (
+            "dry-run compare-dest silently skipped: receiver read the basis content"
+        )
+        assert _snapshot_tree(dest) == before, "dry-run compare-dest mutated the destination"
+
     def test_compare_dest_content_mismatch_forces_transfer(self, shared_server):
         # The basis holds a file with a DIFFERENT body: even though it shares
         # the mtime pin, the xxHash check fails and the data must be sent.