feat(delete): per-directory delete plans for --delete-during/--delete-delay (protocol 2.24.0)

Stream one delete plan per source directory from sender to receiver instead of
a single whole-tree keep-set manifest:

- --delete-during applies each directory's extras as its plan arrives, before
  that directory's data (rsync's generator-order deletion).
- --delete-delay snapshots each directory's extras while the plan arrives and
  commits the removals only after a fully-successful transfer, so files created
  after the scan survive (matching rsync's delete-delay, not delete-after).
- Type conflicts (a destination file blocking a source directory, or vice
  versa) are cleared immediately in both modes, so the nested write succeeds.

The plan carries the destination-relative directory, its kept child directory
names and its kept child file names; the first frame also carries the global
protected prefixes, size-skipped prefixes and --delete-missing-args paths.
--delete-before keeps the existing whole-tree early manifest; plain --delete and
--delete-after keep the end-of-transfer manifest commit.

Preserves the existing safety surface: protected/size-skipped prefixes and the
--delay-updates/basis skips are honored at any depth, deletion is scoped to the
synchronized directories (--files-from), MAX_SERVER_DELETE_COUNT and
--max-delete (partial + exit 25) are shared across plans, symlinks are never
followed, and paths are confined to the receive root.

tests/integration/test_preflight.py

@@ -94,14 +94,14 @@ def _seed_protocol_source(source):
 class TestProtocol:
     @pytest.mark.ci
     def test_protocol_current_version_accepted(self, shared_server):
-        """--protocol=2.23.0 (the current PROTOCOL_VERSION) is accepted and the
+        """--protocol=2.24.0 (the current PROTOCOL_VERSION) is accepted and the
         transfer completes normally."""
         source = os.path.join(TEST_DATA_DIR, "proto_ok_src")
         dest = os.path.join(TEST_DATA_DIR, "proto_ok_dst")
         shutil.rmtree(dest, ignore_errors=True)
         os.makedirs(dest)
         _seed_protocol_source(source)
-        result, _ = run_client(source, dest, flags=["--protocol=2.23.0"],
+        result, _ = run_client(source, dest, flags=["--protocol=2.24.0"],
                                port=shared_server.port)
         assert result.returncode == 0, \
             f"--protocol current run failed: {(result.stderr or result.stdout)[:400]}"