feat(delete): per-directory delete plans for --delete-during/--delete-delay (protocol 2.24.0)

Stream one delete plan per source directory from sender to receiver instead of
a single whole-tree keep-set manifest:

- --delete-during applies each directory's extras as its plan arrives, before
  that directory's data (rsync's generator-order deletion).
- --delete-delay snapshots each directory's extras while the plan arrives and
  commits the removals only after a fully-successful transfer, so files created
  after the scan survive (matching rsync's delete-delay, not delete-after).
- Type conflicts (a destination file blocking a source directory, or vice
  versa) are cleared immediately in both modes, so the nested write succeeds.

The plan carries the destination-relative directory, its kept child directory
names and its kept child file names; the first frame also carries the global
protected prefixes, size-skipped prefixes and --delete-missing-args paths.
--delete-before keeps the existing whole-tree early manifest; plain --delete and
--delete-after keep the end-of-transfer manifest commit.

Preserves the existing safety surface: protected/size-skipped prefixes and the
--delay-updates/basis skips are honored at any depth, deletion is scoped to the
synchronized directories (--files-from), MAX_SERVER_DELETE_COUNT and
--max-delete (partial + exit 25) are shared across plans, symlinks are never
followed, and paths are confined to the receive root.

src/shared/utils.c

@@ -60,7 +60,7 @@ bool path_is_within_root(const char* root, const char* path) {
  * two differ in create-vs-no-create, in what path component they stop at, and
  * in the extra receiver policies they apply, so they are intentionally kept
  * separate.  Both rely on the shared lexical path_is_within_root check. */
-static int open_authorized_destination(const char* dest_root) {
+int utils_open_authorized_destination(const char* dest_root) {
   int root_fd = utils_get_authorized_root_fd();
   const char* root_path = utils_get_authorized_root_path();
   if (root_fd < 0 || !root_path || !dest_root || !path_is_within_root(root_path, dest_root))
@@ -752,7 +752,7 @@ DeleteWalkResult delete_extras_limited(const char* dest_root, const ArrayList* m
   int root_fd = utils_get_authorized_root_fd();
   if (root_fd >= 0) {
     if (utils_get_authorized_root_path())
-      rootfd = open_authorized_destination(dest_root);
+      rootfd = utils_open_authorized_destination(dest_root);
     else if (dest_root == NULL)
       rootfd = dup(root_fd);
     else