feat(delete): per-directory delete plans for --delete-during/--delete-delay (protocol 2.24.0)

Stream one delete plan per source directory from sender to receiver instead of
a single whole-tree keep-set manifest:

- --delete-during applies each directory's extras as its plan arrives, before
  that directory's data (rsync's generator-order deletion).
- --delete-delay snapshots each directory's extras while the plan arrives and
  commits the removals only after a fully-successful transfer, so files created
  after the scan survive (matching rsync's delete-delay, not delete-after).
- Type conflicts (a destination file blocking a source directory, or vice
  versa) are cleared immediately in both modes, so the nested write succeeds.

The plan carries the destination-relative directory, its kept child directory
names and its kept child file names; the first frame also carries the global
protected prefixes, size-skipped prefixes and --delete-missing-args paths.
--delete-before keeps the existing whole-tree early manifest; plain --delete and
--delete-after keep the end-of-transfer manifest commit.

Preserves the existing safety surface: protected/size-skipped prefixes and the
--delay-updates/basis skips are honored at any depth, deletion is scoped to the
synchronized directories (--files-from), MAX_SERVER_DELETE_COUNT and
--max-delete (partial + exit 25) are shared across plans, symlinks are never
followed, and paths are confined to the receive root.

src/shared/multiprocessing.c

@@ -36,6 +36,7 @@ PipelineContextSender* pipeline_context_sender_create(Config* config, Queue* que
   context->scan_had_io_error = false;
   context->remove_source_files = NULL;
   context->early_delete = false;
+  context->delete_plans = NULL;
   context->scan_stopped_early = false;
   context->total_files = 0;
   context->progress_bytes = 0;
@@ -187,6 +188,8 @@ void pipeline_context_sender_destroy(PipelineContextSender* context) {
   if (context->manifest) {
     array_list_delete(context->manifest);
   }
+  if (context->delete_plans)
+    delete_plan_sender_destroy(context->delete_plans);
   if (context->excluded_paths)
     array_list_delete(context->excluded_paths);
   if (context->size_skipped_paths)