feat(parity): rsync 3.4.1 checksum/timeout/temp-dir/connectivity parity (#289 #295 #296)

#289 checksum/compression:
- -c/--checksum now implies the incremental content quick-check (without
  implying -t), so an unchanged file is skipped like rsync.
- --checksum-choice/--cc accepts xxh64/xxhash, xxh3, xxh128, md5 and auto;
  md4/sha1/none and the two-name form are rejected by name.
- --compress-choice/--zc rejects lz4/zlib/zlibx by name (zstd/none/auto kept).
- --checksum-seed=0 is randomized per transfer and sent on the wire.
- --skip-compress uses rsync 3.4.1's default suffix list; slash separators and
  dot-less suffixes are accepted.
- add --no-whole-file.

#295 timeouts/alloc/temp-dir:
- --timeout default 0 (disabled), --contimeout default 60; 0 disables both,
  plus --no-timeout/--no-contimeout.
- --max-alloc=0 means no allocation limit (was rejected).
- --temp-dir accepts any dir, requires it to exist, and falls back to a
  non-atomic copy on EXDEV instead of aborting.

#296 connectivity/daemon:
- -M/--remote-option is rejected for daemon/TCP destinations (SSH-only).
- --trust-sender clarified as receiver-local; server-path tests added.
- --stop-at accepts rsync's full date form (y-m-dTh:m etc.).

Adds unit and integration coverage; no wire-field change, PROTOCOL_VERSION stays
2.22.0.

src/client/client_validation.c

@@ -60,6 +60,16 @@ bool validate_config(const Config* config) {
     log_message(LOG_LEVEL_ERROR, "-f/--sendfile is not supported with SSH transport");
     return false;
   }
+  /* -M/--remote-option appends an option to the REMOTE server's argv, which
+   * only exists on the SSH (user@host:path) transport.  A daemon
+   * (host::module/path) or local TCP destination has no remote command line,
+   * so the option would be silently ignored; reject it by name instead. */
+  if (config->remote_option_count > 0 && config->transport != TRANSPORT_SSH) {
+    log_message(LOG_LEVEL_ERROR,
+                "-M/--remote-option is only valid with the SSH transport (user@host:path); it "
+                "cannot be used with a daemon (host::module/path) or local TCP destination");
+    return false;
+  }
   /* -4 and -6 are mutually exclusive: a socket address family cannot be both. */
   if (config->ipv4 && config->ipv6) {
     log_message(LOG_LEVEL_ERROR, "-4/--ipv4 and -6/--ipv6 are mutually exclusive");