docs: clarify --del alias, early keep-set caps, ACK wait, --no-delete conflict

Usage help now gives --delete-during a complete description with --del on its
own line, and notes that timing flags imply --delete while timing+--no-delete
is rejected regardless of argument order. RSYNC_COMPAT.md documents: the
receiver's MAX_MANIFEST_ENTRIES/MAX_MANIFEST_BYTES caps now abort an early-mode
run before any data (previously only the deletion step failed), the extended
early-delete ACK deadline, and the order-independent flag-conflict policy.

src/client/usage.c

@@ -28,12 +28,15 @@ void print_usage(void) {
   printf("                      transfer has succeeded)\n");
   printf("  --delete-before     Delete extras before the transfer starts\n");
   printf("                      (implies --delete)\n");
-  printf("  --delete-during     Delete extras once the keep-set is known, before\n");
-  printf("  --del               data is applied (alias --del; implies --delete)\n");
+  printf("  --delete-during     Delete extras once the keep-set manifest is known,\n");
+  printf("                      before the data is applied (implies --delete)\n");
+  printf("  --del               Alias for --delete-during\n");
   printf("  --delete-delay      Delete extras only after a successful transfer\n");
   printf("                      (implies --delete)\n");
-  printf("  --delete-after      Alias of the default --delete timing: delete only\n");
-  printf("                      after the transfer succeeded (implies --delete)\n");
+  printf("  --delete-after      Delete only after the whole transfer succeeded\n");
+  printf("                      (the default --delete timing; implies --delete)\n");
+  printf("  Note: each timing flag implies --delete.  Combining a timing flag with\n");
+  printf("  --no-delete (in either order) is rejected as a config error.\n");
   printf("  --ignore-existing  Skip files that already exist on receiver\n");
   printf("  --delay-updates    Put updated files into place only at the end of transfer\n");
   printf("  --dirs, -d, --old-dirs, --old-d  Transfer the named directory entries without\n");